Like Merc, I'm a big believer in active cooling of the chipset. Have this relatively high speed Panaflo fan sitting on top of the 8800GTS, anchored with a tie to the 24-pin power cable - blowing onto the the copper fins of the NB & cpu area, as well as onto the RAM, which is cool to the touch. It keeps NB temps about 5 - 6 degrees C lower than they would be without the fan.

Haven't been willing to hike RAM voltage above 2.2v, but because of Merc's post above am thinking that's why I'm not getting any more than 1150MHz out of it, when others report being able to get 1200MHz +. Am seriously considering getting the Dominator fans sets, which aren't very expensive and appear to work well.
My remaining question before trying more extensive RAM overclocking is whether it will make much difference to take the RAM from its current 1066MHz (only stable speed beyond 410 fsb) to 1150MHz and beyond. Even now the throughput I'm getting is shy of 8000MB/s, whereas my old 939 board with RAM running 1:1 1T @ 560MHz got throughput of about 8600MHz.
I hear that throughput's not supposed to matter ... but the only way I'd be convinced would be to see whether the benches are better with the RAM above 1150MHz compared to 1066MHz. This would require more voltage and I won't do that without more confidence it's ok to take the RAM beyond 2.2v.